Tuesday, 24 May 2016

TEN ETIQUETTES OF LIFE





TEN ETIQUETTES OF LIFE

1)    Take time to LOVE and BE LOVED.
It is God-given privilege

2)    Take time to READ.
It is the fountain of Wisdom and Knowledge.

3)    Take time to GIVE.
It is too short a day to be selfish.

4)    Take time to LAUGH.
It is the music of the soul.

5)    Take time to THINK.
It is the Source of Power

6)    Take time to WORK.
It is the Prize of Success

7)    Take time to SOW.
It is an Investment for Tomorrow.

8)    Take time to PLAY.
It is the Secret of Perpetual Youth.

9)    Take time to PRAY.
It is the Greatest Power on earth.

10)                       Take time to LOOK YOUR BEST.
It boosts your confidence as you start the day.

Thursday, 19 May 2016

The Perfect Nigerian Should be.....





The Perfect Nigerian Should be...

As Technical as the Ibo

As Loud as the Yoruba

As Compromising as the Hausa

As "Settled" as the Fulani

As "Sober" as the Tiv

As Hunting as the Idoma

As Travelled as the Edo

As "Discreet" as the Urhobo

As Influential as the Itsekiri

As Literate as the Ekiti

As "Generous" as the Ijebu

As Driving as the Lagosian

Wednesday, 18 May 2016

The Truth About Success


WHAT WE ARE LIKE


THE 7 SINS OF THE WORLD


Enslavement


A COUNTRY WITHOUT A DREAM



The great divide between men, between people and nations of the world is the availability of great dreamers. Men must first dream, then conceive and put their dreams to action. Not minding the odds they have to face.
            God made man to dream. To dream with his eyes open. To dream is to call into existence, things that had not yet existed in the human sphere or cause those already existing to exist fully – whether they are of inventions, situations or ideals. Without great dreamers, the world would experience little or no progress at all. God never intended for man to exist without progress, and without novelties.
            In many books, dreams are called vision. Men who have built the world’s greatest discoveries, who had pioneered inventions, powered peoples and nations to greatness, and who have given humanity great strides in different spheres of human life, were men of vision. Most times, they were opposed, ridiculed and mocked. Most times they faced gruesome and enormous challenges. In defense of these, they moved on and left their mark for generations unborn.
            In very many cases, these men were misunderstood and opposed. What they see, everyone else could not see. That is vision. Vision is the big difference. A lot of men may work very hard. They may be wise enough to pray for God’s favor in their ventures. They may have faith in the Maker of the universe. Still, these are not enough. There must be something in someone’s life, a passion, an enthusiasm above normal, a great will in attaining a purpose, a great spirit. Whatever this is, it far exceeds a normal vocation. It is more than the pursuit of wealth and material possessions. It is higher than genius and more enduring than fame. It is a sense of a higher calling. It is vision. It is the ability to see far ahead of time. To see far ahead of others.
            They say that most men look, but only a few see. People generally of themselves cannot fashion or attain a vision. They cannot saddle themselves with the challenges of dreaming large. Usually, it is difficult for a leader to communicate his dreams to many others. But if the leader gets a way to do this and is able to convince others to follow him, then his vision is accepted as the collective vision of the people.
            Not all men are leaders even though they attain to high positions. Many men so called leaders are mere rulers and wielders of authority. Only a leader with a clear vision and purpose can be called a leader. History abounds with many of them. Men who had great visions and who were able to communicate their visions effectively to their people and were able to rally them to share in their dreams. The visions of such men were contagious. The morale of their people or followers were high. Their people were able to forsake their individual interests for the collective one and there was unity.
            MaoTse Tung who rallied China to great victories, Lenin who gave Russia the blueprint for their moment in history, Chaka Zulu the greatest military strategist of all time and the greatest African ruler, Nelson Mandela who gave his life for generations unborn in South Africa, Dr. Martin Luther King who charged the blacks of America to the reality of their existence in America, Otto Van Bismarck who rallied Germans to the formation of a great German nation. Cavour and Garibaldi who saved the way for Italian unification and the birth of the Italian nation are just a few mentioned for space. The list is enormous and endearing.
            When a country is devoid of a leader that has a vision, so many things happen. There is low morale, individualism prevails, collective effort is most always thwarted for selfish individual interest and there is much disunity.
            This country has the greatest potentials – human and materials – that mother earth can give. What do we lack? We do not yet have A DREAM.Only a great leader can give his people a dream.
            In the leadership class, we were told that it takes more than a good bunch of seasoned players to win a match. That it takes more than professionalism and proficiency to leave a mark. Spirit matters, that is where vision comes in.
            A leader is a hope builder and a hope sharer. Man can live ‘forever’ if he has a great hope. Hope cures many ailments and makes feeble hearts strong. Where is the leader than can see far beyond our immediacy? A leader that can change the way we see and perceive our nation. A leader who would show us that he really cares, a  leader who would make us proud as a people and give us a great sense of belonging, a rallying force, a leader that would take us beyond our limitations and rally us to greatness.
            I was four years old in 1963. First time I witnessed a blackout. ‘Dem don take light!’ that was what I heard. Later years it became more frequent, then it got worse, apologetic, epileptic, then ‘deader’ than dead. It is over 50years now; we are still battling with electricity.
            Not only electricity. We have a long list of woes. Everything we have put our hands on as a nation has failed. Agriculture, education, infrastructural development, transport, steel, petroleum, sports etc., just mention them.
            In 1984, I did a research on the steel industry. Steel was a laudable project designed to establish the framework for industrial, national developmental and technological take off. It had been expected that this would give us one of the greatest economic dominion in the sub-region and Africa as a whole. Where are they today? We have become one of the biggest importers of steel.
            We have 2 ports in Lagos; we have the Warri, Sapele, Koko, Calabar, PortHacourt main and Onne ports. These are underutilized. We all have to be made to use the 2 Lagos ports more for political fears and reasons of economic dominance. Cotonou port in Benin Republic is not up to any of our ports, yet we have become the greatest patronize of that port. All that is banned in Nigeria for the sake of encouraging local industry and economic take off is unbanned in Cotonou.
            In every barrel of crude oil, we have apart from PMS, DBK, AGO and Aviation fuel and gas, we have over 13 other bye products. When we export our crude and bring in these products, we are losers. We have been losers for years, with unemployment and every sector of our economy so affected.
            We have been operating at the lowest ebb. Agricultural development is almost nil. Education is nose-diving and spiraling down. Health services the way it is now is at a halt. What is going on?
            The Dutch country in Europe has this saying. “God has given us nothing but sea and sand and wind. But they had leaders who taught them to convert the unalluring challenges and they became great. The Swiss also have one equivalent saying, “God has given us nothing but rock and ice and snow”, but great leadership and teachings made them convert these disadvantages to greatness. They did their best in ‘truth and honesty’ and their trustworthy banks, they expanded their savings. They are noted the world over for good banking and other services.
            After 50 years, we are still battling with tribalism and disunity. Everyone is advocating for their individual primodialities. We are tending towards sectionalism. Where is the leader who without bias would weld us together as a people? The leader whose vision transcends selfish and sectional allegiances? Where is the leader with the great vision of correcting our ills and helping us to ‘heal our disease’ as a people?
            A reporter in a Nigerian Newspaper in the early 1978 told of the great joy and optimism with which our independence was received and celebrated. He told of the great expectations and the general overpowering belief that we would in a short time become Africa’s greatest and even so, soonest a power to reckon with in the world.Why would it not be so, when we have all it takes?
            But how did the dream die? When did it die? A great dream emanates from a great leader. I care for no food. I care not for your economics. Give me a hope to work and live for. I am still a patriot. Give me a country I can proudly call my own. Let me be a Nigerian proud of his own country.